Thank you for your question, it is really unfortunate to know that you have been suffering from premature ejaculation. First of all I request you that do not get anxious. Premature ejaculation is a physiological problem than physical. Premature ejaculation is frequently related with” performance anxiety” which is associated to sexual intercourse. Performance anxiety occurs when you concentrate only on the ejaculation process and not loving the overall feelings, leading to raised tension and commonly premature ejaculation.There is frequently a fear of not fulfilling the partner who is related with this situation. Discuss it with your partner is one of the major control measure for premature ejaculation. This discussion may help to relieve you and increase trust in your relationship and stress. Behavior therapy and psychotherapy is also used to train your body to control the premature ejaculation. Sexual counseling is another control measure for premature ejaculation. Your physician can help in advising you with better treatments in the form of medicines or some other methods. You may consult your physician for medication therapy that may be applied to delay premature ejaculation or ointment and tropical creams usable to reduce the sensibility of the penis.Hope I have answered your query well. Take care and wish you all the best.