Good morning. I am writing because two weeks ago I went on a date with another navy reservist... one thing led to another, and I ended up performing oral sex on her. I bit the side of my mouth earlier that evening so I had a cut in my cheek, but it obviously didn't deter me from performing oral sex. About 8 days later I developed swollen glands in my neck under my ears, causing an ear ache and no fever. I also have swollen glands under my arm pit. I have no other symptoms other than some slight drainage... no tonsil inflammation, no indication of strep, etc. The only other symptom I have had is a little fatigue because of the swollen lymph nodes.



I am going to get tested on Tuesday of this coming week, which will 16 days after the fact, but I wanted to ask, realistically, could this be caused by HIV infection? I am sure this woman is tested every two years like I am due to her military service status, but I can't even get her to respond to my emails or texts so I have no idea what her health status is. I guess we just had physical attraction and both regretted crossing the friendship line.



Thank you in advance for your time.