My Name is Katie. I have used Doctorsprings a couple times within the last month. I had one very impressively helpful response form an OB/GYN and a very disappointing response from a very unhelpful Pediatrician. Im going to try you guys again, because I really do need assistance and I would hate to end my experience with Doctorsprings on a bad note. I would really appreciate the permission to speak to an OB/GYN.
My family and I have a very difficult situation and have split into two separate sides. We have all agreed that receiving multiple professional opinions upon this matter would help mend our family and would give our family the ability to reconcile and become a whole family once again.
Just to clarify, this matter has already been proven to be a false allegation, has been legally taken care of and I am not looking for any sort of legal assistance. I am not asking for any “what if questions” (as I received from the Pediatrician) because again the facts have already been stated. I shall simply give the information of the case, ask my questions and would appreciate being given professional opinions based on the information I give. If further questions/information is necessary to help explain these points further, I will be more than happy to clarify and give more detail.
A prepubertal, hemophilic family member of mine has made a false rape allegation against another family member. She made this false allegation out of rage towards this family member. (Her motive was very clear) When she was 15 years old, she reported that her father had been raping her, an average of 4 times per day, from the age of 9 to 15 years old. She claimed that one day at the age of 9, while enjoying the company of copious amounts of family and friends, her father took her inside the house, unclothed her and forcefully vaginally penetrated her. From then on, as I previously stated, it was 4 times a day for 7 years. She claimed that after the first incident, she was also forcefully penetrated anally.
After making this report (at the age of 15) she went in for a rape kit exam. The doctor examined the anal and vagina regions and found not one scare, tear, lesion, stretch mark, bruising etc) However, he did discover that she (In the doctors words) has an “absent vagina” or vaginal atresia. He was able to still give her a pap smear, so her vaginal absence was minor and of mere closure. Later in court the prosecutor stated that her “absent vagina” was simply a dimple, and that just touching the head of his penis to her vaginal “dimple” was enough for conviction. The court/jury was withheld the medical information and the alleged rapist did some time in prison for the false claim.
Seeing as how the alleged rape victim suffers with hereditary, moderate hemophilia, is prepubescent and has a minor case of vaginal atresia, what would the consequences of this claim be?
How would her day to day life physically be affected? (she was a busy body, playing school sports, rode bike on a daily basis, water sports, winter sports etc)
Would not her friends, family, teachers, coaches, mother (who was a nurse), grandfather (who is a police investigator) grandmother (who works for social services) and doctors (who she saw at least 4 times a year) have noticed any of this occurring if it actually had? She socialized with everyone on a daily to weekly basis. If any of them would have noticed her physical struggles or apparent discomforts of such claims, is it not true that any suspicion of abuse is of severe concern and mandates an immediate report to the law?
Also, the alleged rape victim did not experience her first period (therefore unestrogenized) until she was 13 years old, and was immediately put on birth control to help control the bleeding due to her being hemophilic. While reading my message, keep in mind that the alleged rape victim was unestrogenized from the ages of 9-13, a 4 year span where she claims she endured 7300 rapes.
Due to my hunger for answers I did partake in plenty of research. Suppose you took hemophilia and vaginal atresia out of this equation. You are left with a simple prepubescent girl. What would the consequences be of an unestrogenized prepubescent girl enduring forced and full anal and vaginal penetration with a well endowed adult man? (Penile measurements 8” long x 5.5” circumference x 2.5” width)
I have read endless cases/testimonies where fully grown estrogenized women have difficulty being fully penetrated by there lesser yet still well endowed sexual partners. (I included) Many of them experience pain and discomfort for hours and even days post intercourse. Many women also have such a difficult time; they experience immediate pain and discomfort. In order for the woman to gain better sexual satisfaction, as well as better for her partner, she has to “train” her vagina to endure full penetration by gradually enhancing the size of dildo use to stretch enough to accommodate her partner’s full length/girth. According to my research, this process takes weeks of practice.
As the alleged rape victim claims, she was forcefully penetrated from day one. What would the consequences be? Would there not be any physical signs of this occurring; especially 4 times a day for 7 years? And if there would be signs, what would those signs consist of? (Scars, tears, lesions, bruising, stretch marks, inability to sit normal or in a comfortable matter, hinder normal walking activity etc)
In conclusion, I respectfully request answers to these questions. Receiving so would be really appreciated and will help mend my broken family. Again I state I am not looking for any legal advice. The claim has indeed been proven as a false allegation. I would simply like these matters better explained for family purposes. I eagerly await your response.